Thanks hockeyfan. I don't believe you owe me or anyone else here an apology for what you've said. Please don't change how you post based on my statement. Honestly, I wasn't offended. Irritated at times, yes, but heck that happens on a daily basis for over lots of things. ;) Our opinions are shaped by our own experiences.
Yes, there are some pretty pathetic excuses for police officers out there. I think the majority, however, are themselves shaped by what they encounter. They see things the rest of us likely never will. My dad joined the police force when my mom was pregnant with me. Not long after I was born, he responded to a call of a baby not breathing, the victim of what they used to call "crib death." My dad said he had trouble sleeping for weeks, constantly checking on me throughout the night.
He also used to deliver flowers during the holidays. He said he needed to do it so that he didn't lose his perspective on humanity. He needed to knock on doors and be greeted a smile instead of an attitude. And that was 40 years ago. I can't imagine what it's like now.
I think I'm fortunate that when I go to work every day, I have a reasonable expectation that I won't encounter a dangerous situation. Nothing is guaranteed of course, but it's unlikely I'll be unsafe. On the other hand, cops are aware that something very likely could escalate into a dangerous situation. On a good day, it won't.
Now... this present situation with the concessions? Pardon my language: it's bullshit. I work for a state institution and I'm in a union, too. My health insurance has doubled in price, I watched my retirement savings disappear just like everyone else and I'm just grateful every day that I have a damn job. My dad couldn't believe that they turned it down and he thinks Wagner has really lost touch with reality. I still haven't seen the actual voting numbers, but here at work it someone said that it didn't fail by much. Which means a lot of the officers who are going to be laid off were probably willing to take the deal, just so they'd still have a job.
Anyway, hockeyfan, thank YOU for your response, and for what you are doing. You walk the walk and the world needs more like you.